Well, tomorrow, Monday, begins the final week of treatment and will be the third multi-media extravaganza - that is to say, both radiation and chemo. I'm definitely run-down by now, but can still make this final dash to the finish line.
In our society as it is, I'm probably pretty safe in saying that everyone reading this has been touched by cancer in some way. Now for many, that may be knowing someone or knowing of someone who has/had the disease. Mostly, we know of their plight second or third hand - our understanding that they are going through some bad stuff is generally in the abstract. Most are never in the position of living the disease day to day, and all that entails.
BTW, I am not saying this in any judgmental fashion, but merely stating what I believe to be fact. I truly hope that is the only way most of us are exposed. The first time I was affected was 10 years ago when my son David had his ordeal, when I was 53 years old, so I had gotten pretty far along in life free of intimate knowledge of the disease. And, of course, there's not a day that goes by that I still wish I was that naive 53-year old. But, that's a different story for a different day, There is no world of what should be, there is only what there is.
OK, you're asking, where is this drug and disease-addled crazy going with this one? That, my friends, is the Public Service Announcement I promised in the title. to re-iterate, I have been afflicted with squamous cell carcinoma of the tongue. That is to say, I developed a rather large malignant tumor at the base of my tongue. The cause of my brand of the disease is exposure to the HPV virus. In laymen's terms, I have contracted an extreme STD. The virus can remain dormant in our bodies for 10 - 12 years, or more. So, since a lot has happened on my life during that period, I have not expended any effort in trying to trace the genesis of the disease, not will I ever. The reality is it happened. Now, it typically doesn't happen to guys. In recent years, there have typically been fewer than 5,000 cases per year among American men. That also leads to why it took several months for me to be diagnosed - it's not what the doctors were looking for. They were looking for TMJ, or cluster headaches, or an abscess, or nerve damage, or . . .
But, getting back on point, recent statistics are that 5% of current cancers in Americans are a result of HPV. So, these forms of the disease are preventable, or at least may be mitigated by early detection. So, for yourselves and loved ones, no one knows your body like you do, When it's talking to you, listen. If something doesn't feel right, it probably isn't. You're not being a weenie by going to a doctor and being the squeaky wheel.
And here's where I'm going to ruffle some feathers, but so be it. I know that there are movements afoot now to eradicate all early childhood immunizations. I also know that there are movements to have young girls immunized against HPV. Now, I'm not going to pretend that I know anything at all about science and technology behind any of these. What I do know is that I not only recommend that we have our daughters immunized against HPV, but our sons, too. I know that I would never want to see any of my children or grandchildren, or any of your children and grandchildren, or any of the little boy who lives down the lane's children or grandchildren go though one day of what I'm going through. If I can somehow prevent a single case of cancer from occurring, I will eventually die a happy man.
Peace and love to all!!
Joe
Thanks for the public service announcement - I checked with my ma-in-law and she does the girls and recommends the boys also for the vaccine at 11 - for this reason and as they carry in 90% of cases - so thanks for sharing and spreading the word! :) Good luck in your last week - many, many healing vibes coming your way!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Joe. I'm now 28, and I think I was in the first wave of young adults encouraged to get the HPV vaccine. I was in college at the time, and I know they're doing it much younger now. I've heard a great deal of arguments both ways about this vaccine, but at the end of the day, I don't think I know any females (my age or younger) who haven't gotten it. Your story makes a compelling case for getting the boys on board too. Thank you, again, for sharing. - Noel xoxo
ReplyDeleteI'm with you on all immunizations, including the HPV. I was so happy that the vaccine became available when my girls were preteens. I was first in line with them!
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